Showing posts with label A Few of My Favorite Things. Show all posts
Showing posts with label A Few of My Favorite Things. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 18, 2014

A Very Special Candy Shop

I haven't written in a long while. We are on yet another...that would be the 19th....medical trip to New York City for a couple of brain and spine surgeries on a couple of kids. It seems to be a hobby of ours unfortunately. These trips are both very difficult and wonderful because New York has become a second home for us. Among surgeons, appointments, scans, labs, surgeries, ICU and long term stress, there are also new and old friends and many places we have come to love.

 One very special place the kids must go every time we arrive in NY is Bobb Howard's General Store.  I must confess on the trips for my surgeries when the kids have not been with us Ed and I go too. This great little place is attached to an auto repair shop and you might miss it if someone didn't tell you it was there. Here in New York that's how you learn about EVERYTHING....someone tells you about it. Ed and I have found the most nifty places because a nurse or PA in the hospital or someone at Ronald McDonald House of Long Island said, "You've got to go to such-and-such".  We don't see this out west where we're from as much but it's constant here in NY.  I just love that everyone has their favorites to share and it's never the touristy places.  
A little side note here.....
 That reminds me to tell you that this is where you really learn that New Yorkers are so far from what people think they are. Yes, they are always running around fast and as they themselves tell me, "We are always running fast to get nowhere!" They may not notice you or may bump right into you and you will rarely hear an "Excuse me"out of them. Ya know, all the things people perceive as rude? Yet they are not rude, it's just the way it is here. But when you engage a New Yorker and talk to them....watch out because you'll be standing there awhile. They love to talk, love to visit, love to get to know you and with that great accent. This is my most favorite thing about them. It doesn't matter where you are; in a deli, a doctor's office, a hospital bed, at the grocery store or a diner, (I have had long conversations in all these places).....if you get a New Yorker talking plan on being there awhile. I Love It! This is how we found out about Bobb Howard's and a great little bakery, the best pizza in town (and there is always a debate about that!) and a burger joint a friend took us to that had the thickest burger my husband has EVER eaten. Everyone here has an opinion and a strong one!
Back to Bobb Howard's

This is Eileen and Ronnie
From the Bobb Howard's website:

Eileen and Ronnie, the owners of Bobb Howard's General Store are a couple of Baby Boomers who grew up on Long Island playing Hopscotch and Hide-and-Seek, Stickball and Stoopball, flipping baseball cards and Jacks, and playing Hit the Penny and Spin the Bottle. They met, fell in love, and have been "playing house" for over 39 years.
The General Store is attached to the family auto repair shop that Eileen's parents opened 67 years ago on Columbus Day, 1946. People often comment on the combination of the 2 businesses. For Eileen and Ronnie, it is a natural extension of the things they love. Eileen has an old '67 Austin Healey and they have a fun collection of old gumball and coin-op machines and old toys and games in their home, not to mention Eileen's childhood favorites: Dubble Bubble, Jujubes, B-B-Bats, and Red Licorice in almost every room!
The repair shop is a landmark in the neighborhood as they are now servicing 2nd, 3rd, and some 4th generation family cars, and the rite of passage for some of the neighborhood kids is to be able to go to Bobb Howard's on their bicycles by themselves. The General Store actually started out as a convenience store in 1982, then 16 years ago, Eileen, noticing the frenetic pace of today's computerized world, decided it was time for a change, time to go back to a simpler time, to have people remember what it felt like to be a "kid in a candy store" again, and go back to a time when games didn't require batteries. So she started slowly converting the fast-paced convenience store into an old-time candy and toy store where kids of all ages could come and browse and giggle with nostalgic memories. And as the saying goes, "The rest is history".
Word started spreading quickly about the store and soon customers, the newspapers, TV and radio stations were putting Bobb Howard's General Store "on the map".  Bobb Howard's now ships "Packages of Memories" all over the world and kids and kids-at-heart come through the door for a piece of "their past" -- for themselves, for friends, for generations past, and to share with future generations. Eileen and Ronnie feel very blessed. They love what they do, they love coming to work every day, and they love being able to put a smile on some one's face, even if it's with a nickel piece of bubblegum.

Ed and I in front with me holding an old glass bottle of Orange Crush! They have an old time ice box converted to a fridge filled with ice and full of glass pop-bottles of various kinds of soda.

Doesn't this look fun?

Row after row of candy you'll remember fondly from childhood!


The pictures say it all about how the store looks but it says nothing about how you are treated when you walk in. Everyone is special. Everyone matters. Everyone steps back in time to a place when things were slower, when people were not in a hurry, when your neighborhood shopkeepers knew you, your Mom and Dad, and your favorite ball team! It was a time when a nickel got you 5 pieces of candy. I can remember that time because when I was little there were still penny candies. This is what struck Ed and I when we walked into Bobb Howard's. We were greeted and stood there talking forever. By the time we left we knew each other's histories and they knew all about our crazy medical mumbo jumbo and were truly interested.

The next time we came they knew us right away and where we were from as soon as we walked in the door! After that we emailed a few times and knew Eileen had a serious surgery coming. We promised to pray for her and thankfully she is doing well. They ask about the kids and their surgeries every time we go in on our trips. They must see thousands of people and they remember us....amazing to me... and very unusual in our world now. What a special place.

So....when you're in New York come to Long Island, and Bobb Howard's General Store .If you never come here go to their website and order some old favorite candies for yourself or friends and family. It's so fun to eat them and go back in time!
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
581 Lakeville Road, New Hyde Park
516 354-9564
oldcandy@aol.com
~Blessings~
Lisa

P.S.
They were voted:

Saturday, November 2, 2013

Our Thankful Tree





I just got back from yet another surgery, this one being an emergency for my brain shunt and having to fly across country to NYC with 24 hours notice. We were able to do it so quickly because of the generous donated help of others. That's why there have been no posts. This post is important to me and I want your help to spread it around because I am feeling very blessed and thankful.

I am doing a post on just our Thankful Tree today because in the past it has been intertwined with my Fall posts. I think it's so special that I want it to stand on it's own. Everyone who comes into the house always comments on it or wants to join in so I really want to get the Tradition out there. It is so darn simple, inexpensive and a really special gift to give others.  

Because I think we are living in a time where the spirit or even habit of being thankful is a bit lacking, I am going to try and spread this all over the web and I hope you do too. I really am convinced being thankful, grateful, seeing things as a gift is one of the keys to happiness, so please share this in whatever way you can. Here goes....

1.  I get one of those Dollar Tree clear vases that has a bottom heavy base.

2. Also at the Dollar Tree or any craft store I get 2 bags of those nice little glass or real rocks.  You can make this as natural or fancy as you like (i.e silver painted stones or real stones)

 3.  For branches, look in your yard, take a walk and find some interesting looking ones or if you're looking for a high end look, any craft store has all kinds of branches to buy. 

  4. Snuggle as many as you think look good down into your vase filled with rocks.  Make sure the branches you get have little tiny arms coming out from the main stem so you have lots of places to hang the leaves. 

 5. Next, cut out of construction paper, yellow, red, orange and brown leaves large enough to write on.  Now punch holes in them at one end and tie a circle of gold or brown yarn. I leave a bit of tail on the ties as they look woodsy.  The kids really enjoy helping with this. 

  6.  I put a pretty bowl of blank leaves on the dining table next to the tree and a pen. 

 We invite guests to add to it too. On Thanksgiving everyone reads them. Of course no one waits until then, everyday everyone checks to see who wrote what (and in my home of 6 boys they have to give each other a hard time about what they write....I've been blessed with sons....sigh)!   Guests always go to the tree and start reading. It says a lot to see that kids and families are thankful. People just love it. It makes their day. We as a nation, a family, a couple, or as a person need to start being thankful again even if we have little or are going through hard times....there is ALWAYS something to be thankful for and this little tree reminds us of that.

Find variations of your own but MAKE ONE, you'll love it and it makes Thanksgiving and the whole month leading up to it very special.  It's also a lovely and easy gift to give especially to someone going through a rough time. Buy the few things needed which is only a couple dollars, do all the cutting and tying, get the branches in the vase and give it to a family to get started. 
Voila!

This picture does not do the tree justice and this was one of our more pitiful ones because of a hard medical year, but it really is lovely in person and you can make it beautiful!



This leaf shows one of the children who wrote Make~A~Wish! They write all of their doctor's names, their Grandparents, their favorite priests, that they have food and a house, for their Hotwheels cars, there are wonderful, warm things, funny things, crazy things. It's really fun.  I have kept every single leaf for every single year. I have them all they are priceless.

May you have a blessed and thankful November.

~Blessings~
Lisa

Saturday, September 21, 2013

Fall.....Again!

I absolutely, positively love Fall so am I reposting last year's post including some new pictures......
  We love Fall at our house. I have to admit I go waaaay overboard having grown up on the coast of Northern California where the weather is the same 365 days a year.  When we still lived there I had to create the seasons inside and outside our home with decorations. You'd think I would have let up a bit once we moved to beautiful Washington State where there are definitely 4 seasons but I just couldn't let it go. 
I think I need therapy.




 I have passed my weirdness down to my children who on August 31st asked if they could get the Fall boxes down from the barn attic. It didn't take me long to cheerfully say, "Okay go git 'em!!"  So, on September 1st the festivities began. The mantle is always first then the kitchen with our wonderful pumpkin bowls I got at Michael's for a nifty $1.00 each!  They are so, so cute. There's the oh-so-orange pumpkin cookie jar and the orange cereal bowls too. I then hang my fall themed towels on the stove, put the runner I made down the length of the dining table, which at our house is no small length.  Next is the kitchen window sill. Amongst the various things that sit there, there are two Fall miniature bread crocks always filled with that NASTY Brach's candy corn and Fall mix.  I'm sorry, but that stuff is just plain wax. Candle wax I tell you, and my family loves it. Especially the husband. This is his big treat of the year :)  There is much more decorating but we don't want pages and pages of this right?

  Outside we go berserk and have wreaths, a gazillion pumpkins that have to be just the right shapes; tall and skinny, flat and squatty, perfectly round, the triangle, and the lumpy one. The gold, rust, burgundy and yellow chrysanthemums, and those cute little gourds and pumpkins sit all over the front walkway and flower beds. And cornstalks...oh the cornstalks...I love them. Gosh, I just LOVE Fall, did I mention that?

  Come October we add some Halloween decorations and of course costumes and Trick-or-Treating! This year we had a Duplo, a baseball player and a Pez dispenser! Pretty ingenious eh? The boys made their costumes from scratch and they were awesome. It's so funny to me to only have 3 that Trick-or-Treat. It wasn't long ago that getting 8 kids ready was an all afternoon event. Anyway, the boys made a haul in our neighborhood plus their Nonni always sends more candy money.....oh boy!

   On Nov. 1st, All Saints Day if you're Catholic, we start putting together the Thankful Tree.  I cannot remember where I first saw it or how many years we've been doing it but it's such a great tradition.  It is branches with home made leaves hanging from them. Each leaf has what everyone in the family is thankful for written on them. The kids think of some of the funniest things. The one I always remember is "That my Dad is a pushover".  My husband is always mistakenly thought of as "scary" when folks meet him. Why I do not know. Perhaps it's his size...he's well over 6 feet and very broad shouldered. In other words BIG (but not fat) which is one of things I love about him. He's big and safe and won't let anything happen to me or our family. After folks talk to him a bit they realize he's a big Teddy Bear and his family can get him to do anything. Hence "pushover".  He has a lot of bark and no bite whatsoever. I got off topic talking about my lovely husband.

Our Thankful Tree

   Okay now the tree!! I get one of those Dollar Tree clear vases that has a bottom heavy base. I also get 2 bags of those nice little glass or real rocks.  For branches, look in your yard, take a walk and find some interesting looking ones or if you're looking for a high end look, Michael's or any craft store has all kinds of branches to buy.  Snuggle as many as you think look good down into your vase filled with rocks.  Make sure the branches you get have little tiny arms coming out from the main stem so you have lots of places to hang the leaves.  Next, cut out of construction paper, yellow, red, orange and brown leaves large enough to write on.  Now punch holes in them at one end and tie a circle of gold or brown yarn. I leave a bit of tail on the ties as they look woodsy.  The kids really enjoy helping with this. 

   I put a pretty bowl of blank leaves on the dining table next to the tree and a pen.  We invite guests to add to it too. On Thanksgiving everyone reads them, even though everyone checks everyday to see who wrote what!  Find variations of your own but MAKE ONE, you'll love it and it makes Thanksgiving very special.  It's also a lovely and easy gift to give. Buy the few things needed, do all the cutting and tying, get the branches in the vase and give it to a family to get started. 
Voila!

This picture does not do the tree justice, it really is lovely in person.


     In this photo we didn't have the gold or brown yarn so a light yellow was used...yuk.

     The other great happenings are the 2 birthdays we have in October. On mine we go to Schilter Family Farm (www.schilterfamilyfarm.com) and pick pumpkins, go on a hay ride and do all those fun Fall things that make memories. I take a ton of pictures and the kids get very tired of me and my camera.  The next birthday is our son Mike and he has always wanted the same cake even though he's a great big boy now at 6'2" !
 It's cute and easy.
    Please pretend you don't see the pink candles for this boy's cake. Sometimes things just don't go right you know?  The characters are colored and cut out of a coloring book and laminated. Then we tape a Popsicle stick on the back and plop them into the cake. We've had these same ones for many years and just wipe them off  and pull off the sticks. The pumpkins are of course the Brach's Fall Mix or plain pumpkins. I normally
pipe green vines around the patch but I must have been rushed this year.

   That is my Fall blog for this year. Traditions, traditions, traditions. Hey isn't that from Fiddler on the Roof?
~Blessings~
Lisa

Thursday, June 27, 2013

Summer Time

I often marvel at how different things are in the last 20 years or so.  I had 2 of the boys at the orthodontist's office the other morning and as I was making their next appointments I looked around the waiting room. That waiting room was full of parents and children staring at their phones. There was no visiting, no stories being read aloud, no parents exchanging words with one another.
Twenty years certainly doesn't seem very long ago. I remember my Grandmother and Mother saying those same words......I am definitely getting older!
Technology, communication in general.....is so very different in such a short time. Things have changed dramatically.
However......
Summer is still Good Ol' Summer Time! Some things just don't have to change in 20 years to be great! Like....


 Our County Fair

Ball Games


Beaches

Gardens

Popsicles

Clear blue pools
Sprinklers
The wonderful smell of sunscreen
Picking strawberries

 Picking our raspberries, blackberries and eating watermelon!

Independence Day

Picnics
 Daylight until almost 10:00 PM here in the Pacific Northwest
Hot days and cool nights
Hot dogs, hamburgers and corn on the cob
Flip flops
Being tan
Days on the lake
All these things are so simple, so timeless, so wonderful. I look forward all winter to these lazy days and they are exactly the same as they were 20 years ago.  No technology can make any of this better!
It is just lovely that some things just cannot be improved upon!

~Blessings~
Lisa

Thursday, May 30, 2013

Do-Si-Do!

We spent the evening tonight at a big square dance. Yes, my family square dances!!  I do not because of the medical mumbo-jumbo, but most everyone else in the family has or does. It's cool!

 The square dance community is a wonderful, all American group of folks. You know, like apple pie, Old Glory, and baseball. We began because our daughter Mary, then 10, wanted to dance after seeing the local group perform at our county fair. They pulled her up on stage and included her and she was instantly enamoured.

We knew the evening during her first class that we had run into something very special, much like the America of yesterday.
The square dance hall, built by the square dancers, is a simple, wooden building much like a cabin, with a beautiful dance floor and little kitchen. It feels like home. It's out in the country and the drive out there is so relaxing and lovely, we really enjoy it. On a warm summer evening, headed out to the hall with windows open and Alan Jackson blaring from the CD player......pure awesomeness!

Here we are eight years later and the folks there are like family to us. They have held benefit dances, auctions, even a pie auction (yum) for our family's medical expenses!  They send us cards while we are in ICU in NYC, they leave messages on our Caring Bridge site and one couple has adopted us financially to get us through the kids' many surgeries. We couldn't have done it without them. Our children have many "grandparents"! They are family to us, they mean a great deal to us. We are blessed.


There is a wide age range in square dancing. From one gentleman who's 95 down to 8 yr olds who dance away with the grown ups. One of our sons was only 9 when he started and now is taller than most of the folks there. Our sons play cards with older gentleman and tease the older gals. It has been a great opportunity for our children to learn the value of older folks.  One Saturday evening our 3 older boys, teens at the time, were standing visiting with one of the very old guys at the hall. A bit later he walked up to me and Ed with tears in his eyes and said, " I wanted to tell you what great boys you have, I can't believe they wanted to stand here and listen to me".   He had been telling them about Normandy....like the storming of the beach at Normandy....because he was there!!! This man's stories were so compelling to our sons, and they were truly interested in what he had to say. They knew he sacrificed much. 

One of the things we all enjoy is the food! Homemade, yummy, never ending food! Root Beer floats, brownies, pies, you name it someone brings it.


Mary's Trifle...Yum!
People.  Relationships.  Caring.  Listening.  Dancing.  Helping.  Eating.  Sharing.  Laughing. Teasing.  Playing.  
This is square dancing.

If you're in need of exercise, entertainment, good music, awesome food and life long friendships look for a square dance club near you!!  (Dancing is much easier than you might imagine and you don't have to wear a skirt and petticoat!)



~Blessings~
Lisa





Wednesday, February 27, 2013

The Farm

Schilter Family Farm
 Just writing the title evokes warm memories of fun times. This is one of those great family farms, passed from one generation to the next, serving their community for the best times in life.  We began going to the Farm to pick pumpkins 16 years ago when we moved to Washington. It is so beautiful, snuggled in the Nisqually Valley, a picture perfect farm seen by thousands off the I5 Freeway in Southwest Washington.
We look forward every year to their Fall Festivities. It is just so darn country. So traditional. So homey, comfy, warm, squishy...you get my drift!!  It's so Mayberry RFD !  It represents all that is good. Fun. Family. Kids. Hay Rides. Pumpkins. Corn Maze. Christmas Trees. Hot chocolate. Coffee. Baby animals. Do you think I have some issues here? Maybe a wee bit sentimental?
And look at that grass....I love grass and isn't it beautiful?
Take a look at the floor in the gorgeous old barn above....look....spotless. The whole farm is like that.
This picture is Ed and "Farmer Fred" as the kids always called him. Ed enjoyed and looked forward to visiting with him every year. The boys once wrote Farmer Fred a letter asking about the farm. They got the most beautiful hand printed letter back from him. It hung on their bulletin board for YEARS. I wonder if he knew he meant something to the children who visited.
Fred Schilter along with his lovely wife Patti owned the farm for many, many years, more than 60 I believe. It was a dairy farm for most of that time. It now belongs to their son Jeff and his wife Stephanie. Both of their families work at the Farm in the Fall season, working their tails off for the good of the family and farm. It's so American. So old fashioned, so apple pie.....uh-oh it's my issues again. 
Every year on my birthday, Schilter's is where I choose to spend it. I have serious issues regarding Pumpkins and Jeff & Steph make sure we have a truck full!!
 See back there, those barn doors?  FUN stuff. Country crafts, yummy treats.....oh my gosh the puffed sweet corn stuff (don't know the name)...to die for!!!  I eat way too much of it every year.
The Corn Maze
Setting up Pumpkin Bowling
How 'bout some kitties?
How 'bout some flowers?  They plant all of these on the Farm. The hanging baskets are just gorgeous and sold at a great price!
The roadside stand has flowers, fresh produce which includes in-season berries and a line of canned goods!! We love to stop by the stand on Sundays and get goodies.

Ignore Ed and I and LOOK at this barn!!
The spectacular barn on the Farm is now a popular venue for wedding receptions. We attended one and it was just lovely. What a great place for country pictures. This barn is amazing in it's workmanship, built in 1865, the beams and siding are just gorgeous. It's used for the super fun Hay Maze in the Fall, is decorated for parties and receptions during the good weather season and beautifully decorated with a Creche in the winter for Christmas during tree cutting season.
We love this farm and the family who runs it. If you are ever near Olympia Washington stop by.
~Lent Blessings~
Lisa

Monday, February 25, 2013

Tiffany & Co.

With a medical trip like the one we are on, with so many hard things in a short span of time, I thought I nice trip to Tiffany & Co. was in order. It's a lovely store with many, many lovely things. 





   The gentleman that waited on me was kind, helpful and funny.  I knew what I was looking for, a tiny sterling heart with the Tiffany logo.  He showed me several things, all beautiful. 

After I made my small purchase, he put it in a soft velvety bag....


  Then he gently lay it in a beautiful box and proceeded to tie the most perfect bow....
I teased him about a man making a perfect bow and he said it was quite the challenge on his first day but now he was a pro.


Then into a beautiful Tiffany Blue bag he put my treasure....


It's wonderful to do something totally frivolous sometimes.
~Blessings~
Lisa

Lists

I LOVE lists...... I love making lists, reading lists, crossing things off my lists.  Lists are lovely!!!

I love long skinny lists with designs on the top.

I love pink legal pads.

I love small note pads with lines

I love the back of envelopes.

I love sticky notes in all colours.

I love my planner.

If you are not an organized person or a list person or just not totally neurotic this little post may not be interesting. Lists help me because due to circumstances beyond my control, my brain doesn't work at full capacity and if I don't write everything down it's GONE rather quickly. I even have lists of my lists when things are really hairy like this trip.

I even have an online list that I absolutely love not just because it's a list but because it is so simple and by golly I need simple.  It allows you to make lists for each day (which is not so amazing) but the amazing part is that whatever is not crossed off said list, magically appears on the next day!! I love this. It keeps me in line and not overwhelmed by the next day thinking I have not finished today's list.

As crazy as I am regarding my lists, (just ask my husband when he tries to write on one of my lists.....growl) I really appreciate this online list because it is super simple without complicated tasks that many online calendars or organizers have. 

Simple, simple, simple.

It is www.teuxdeux.com   

Make your lists online and see what you think. I am a simple minded girl so this is perfect for me. I am not a techy so if you are, this may be kindergarten 101 for you.....I am in kindergarten 101 so it makes me happy!

~Blessings~
      Lisa

Sunday, December 23, 2012

The Coolest Cake....

Our twin boys received the coolest birthday cake yesterday from a wonderful volunteer of Icing Smiles.  
                                                          
From their website:
"Icing Smiles is a nonprofit organization that provides custom celebration cakes and other treats to families impacted by the critical illness of a child.  We understand that the simple things, like a cake, are luxuries to a family battling illness.  Our goal is to create a custom cake for the ill child, or their sibling, that provides a temporary escape from worry and creates a positive memory during a difficult time".

   The gal who made their Lego cake is Cosette Neely. She is a professional baker out of her home and so talented as you will see.....

                                                    Cosette and the boys







    Isn't that amazing? To have talent like that and then use it for charity. With all the negative things going on in the world this is a bright spot.  There are so many organizations like this, so many volunteers who choose to do good. Why is there not an entire newspaper or TV channel devoted to only the good?  I think it would make a big difference in perpetuating good behaviour.  Good people choosing to do good things.

   When we met Cosette for the first time, she came by to pick up the Lego guys she used on the cake and we visited for a bit, talking about where we were originally from.  It turns out she is from our hometown in California!! Talk about a small world.

   Cosette has a Facebook page  www.facebook.com/MySweetCosette  please visit and support a business woman who gives back.  We deal with multiple wonderful organizations because of our medical mumbo jumbo.  They are so friendly and kind, due I think, to the fact that they give, they serve, they provide help.  Here's a tiny list...

* Icing Smiles ~
     www.icingsmiles.org.     

* Make~A~Wish Washington/Alaska ~   

*Make~A~Wish New York ~

*Dream Factory

*Dr. Robert Lester M.D. ~  Black Hills Pediatrics

*Dr. Paolo Bolognese ~ The Chiari Institute

*Dr. Lin Jiang  ~  Black Hills Pediatrics

*Seattle Children's Hospital

*Miracle Flights ~    

*Ronald McDonald House of Long Island ~

*Variety House of Long Island

*Give Kids The World ~ 
     http://www.gktw.org/    

*Mercy Medical Airlift ~     
     http://mercymedical.org/    

*Inspiration Through Art ~   

*Harley Davidson Christmas "Run" ~
    http://www.nwharley.com/    

*American Airlines

*Delta Airlines

*US Air Airlines

*Jet Blue Airlines

*Southwest Airlines

All of these and more have helped us and we are so very grateful.  Good people do many good things and Cosette through Icing Smiles made the boys' birthday very special indeed.  Thanks Cosette!!

~Blessings~
    Lisa